School is in full
swing by now, and getting to know a brand new group of
friends and parents each year can be daunting (and with
the holidays on the horizon, our busy lives are only going
to get busier). So if you're struggling to find time
to meet the parents of all of your 7-year-old's new friends
so that you can rest easy the next time she's invited for
a play date, the Party Play Date is for you.
Pick a day and time when you have a good chance of everyone
being available, and invite both mom (or dad) and child
to a simple get-together. Provide a selection of snacks
and an outdoor play space for the kids, and settle in for
a good chat with some new friends. Here's a few of our
best hints:
• Choose a time when people don't usually have anything
else scheduled, such as the after-dinner hour or a Saturday
breakfast date.
• Meet outdoors at a park or in your own backyard
to minimize clean-up.
• Provide a simple assortment of snacks and beverages
that you can tote along in a rolling cooler.
• Bring paper and pens to create a contact list of
names and phone numbers for future play dates.
• If you're not a natural-born "chatty" parent,
compile a list of simple questions such as, "Do you
work outside the home?" Work your way down the list
and give everyone a chance to answer.
Then just let the kids play -- they are already the best
of friends, anyway -- while you get to know the other parents.
You might just find that the Party Play Date is something
you'll want to do every month. |